Helpful Q&A about our day!

Can I bring a plus one?

No, unfortunately we have had to think long and hard about our guest list and we want to share our day with the most important people in our lives. All invited guests are named on your invitation and we will be unable to cater for any additional uninvited guests.


Are children invited?

We are sorry, but we are keeping our special day as an adult-only occasion.


Is there a dress code?

Please wear formal wedding attire. We do not have a colour scheme for guests but as normal, please do not wear white.


I would like to get a gift, do you have a wedding list?

We are so thankful that people would consider buying us a wedding gift, just having you there to celebrate our big day is enough for us!

If you would like to gift us something, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated.


Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

Our ceremony and reception will both be taking place at Vaulty Manor in Essex. Please see the ‘About our day’ tab for further information on our itinerary along with timings of the day.


Will there be onsite accommodation?

Please see the accommodation tab at the top of this page for more information about on and off site accommodation.